i have a problem. my friend and i like the same guy. i think he likes me because he always says hi to me and shows major Signs of flirting, and i really like him to. my friend always tries to hog up all of his attention when he sits with us at lunch, and when we see him in the hallway, she pushes me aside and says hi to him. whenever i am talking to him alone in the hallway, she comes along and joins in to our conversation and its really awkward. one day i was telling my other friend how i felt about this, and she screamed at me and said
"STOP FIGHTING WITH ROBIN!!"
why is it so hard just vent to your friends and them to listen, just like how they do to you? dont understand. i dont even know if i should be friends with these girls anymore. i am so confused!!
PLEASE HELP ME!!

Girl tell me about it!!!! Just be your self and he will come to u!! If this guy really likes u, he wont care about any other girl exsept u!!! And if u feel tht he not interested, just forget him, God will make all the guys that he wants u to have, u never know if hes one of them

no worries girl!!! Everyone has been throuh that. It is important to realize that you might not want to vent feelings to other girls your age because it can come accross as gossip sometimes. Your riend was probably stressed out and you might have caught her at a bad time. As much as that guy might seem like the most important thin in world riht now...the truth is, your riendship is so much more important! Boys come and go like crazy all through middle and high school, try to focus on your friendships. PRAY that God will take care of the entire situation...and he will! God is one man that you can spend all your time talking to and he will never stop giving you HIs attention!!! what an awesome thing to realize!!

There is one friend that will listen to you no matter what and will only have your best interest in mind when He replies. GOD!!! Ask God how to go about this. Listen to his answer and go from there. If this guy is really important to you, then don't let anyone keep you from talking to him or anything like that. On the other hand, no guy should come between real friends. This would be a good time to analyze who you are hanging out with. Are they your true friends? If so then talk to them, both of them, about how you're feeling. Don't just talk to one of them, in case they interpret it as you asking to take sides. But try to explain to both of them about how you are feeling. God is with you through everything and no matter what happens, He'll be there to catch you, or help you keep going forward. Pray about it and maybe try talking with your youth pastor or his wife. If you have any older ladies in your church or school that you look up to, you could try asking them for advice as well.

Just remember that your #1 friend who will help you through anything and everything while keeping you calm and strong, is GOD!

I love what madison Said about talking to a youth pastor or his wife! There are so many people in our lives that we can seek help from! Keep on speeding the good word girls! God Bless

Lauren
RAVE ministries

first off, i know you and that is SOOOOO his loss. JUst to say, if your friend is doing things like that to you, if this guy is a good guy, he will see that quality in her. If God's plan is supposed to bring you two together then it will happen:) Well give it time and you are a beautiful girl with God shining in you then he will see that and that is Soooooooooooooo something guys will fight for. LOVE YOU FOREVER:)