I need advice on guys. I really like this guy. He is amazing,a strong christian, and has a great personality. He says that he is comfortable talking to me and hanging out with me. Sounds great but the thing is one of my friends likes him too. Me and my friend have been having fights about stupid drama. I have been praying that if this is a sign that we should be friends or not.This keeps on happening. The guy we like is starting to hang out with me more than her and she is getting jealous. I don't know what I should do. I really like this guy and he is my friend too but then I don't want to hurt her feelings either. Me and my friend have been not as close friends as we were before. I'm not if that means we shouldn't be friends or what.Please comment.

This is just like deshavu!! If this boy really likes you, then he will ask you out. But if he likes you and just wants to be friends, than thats even better. And about your friemd, my mom always tells me that some friends come for a reason, others only for a season, so maybe God has a whole diffrent plan for both of yall. Maybe God put this girl in your life for a reason, but now he has a diffrent plan for her. Just stay true to God and listen to him!!

Girl, we have all been there, done that! It is hard though! But, as hard as it might be sometimes, DON'T RUIN A FRIENDSHIP OVER A BOY!! I promise it's not worth it! I agree with how friends come and go, but boys come and go even more. Pray about the situation. Tell God exactly how you are feeling. Talk to your friend. Remind her that you love her and want the best for her, and ask her about the guy. It's kinda true that if she was your best friend, she would be happy for you if you dated this guy, but it's even more true that if you really love her and want the best for her, you wouldn't date him. This is a really tough spot to be in. Don't rush into anything. That is probably one of the biggest problems with situations like this. Just pray. A LOT. And trust God that He will set things right. Ask Him to show you what to do. He will lead if you will follow Him.

Thank you both so much!! It really helped alot. i hope it works out too.

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